正巧，看到措尼Rinpoche的话，被这爱温暖到融化……

🌿 中文翻译

措尼Rinpoche：

当然，培养pu提心，往往需要一些“舍弃”——
是一种决定：把他人的安乐，放在我们自己的欲望、需求、期待与恐惧之上。

这意味着，
即使我们并不认同他人，也要给予他们为自己做决定的权利。

这意味着，
允许他人犯错，也允许他们从错误中学习。

这意味着，
接纳我们自己以及他人性格中那些我们称之为“缺点”的部分，
并将它们视为一个更宏大、长远的学习过程中的一部分。

这意味着，
在我们内心培育出一个深深关怀的空间——
一个可以随时回归的“家”，
在那里我们被接纳，被允许，
并重新发现那种疗愈的能力——
无论是我们曾经对自己，还是对他人造成的伤。

通过这样的疗愈，
我们开始触及一种作为人的更广大潜能，
那是我们此前从未想象过的。

🌿原文：

Tsoknyi Rinpoche：

Of course, developing bodhicitta often requires some sacrifice, a decision to place the well-being of another above our own desires, needs, hopes, and fears.

It means granting people the right to make their own decisions even if we don’t agree with them.

It means allowing people to make mistakes and allowing them to learn from them.

It means accepting what we may consider “flaws” in our own and others’ personalities and accepting them as part of a larger, long-term learning process.

It means cultivating within ourselves a place of deep caring, a sense of “home” to which we can always return, be welcome, and rediscover the capacity for healing from whatever hurt we’ve caused ourselves and others.

Through this healing, we begin to approach a greater potential as human beings than we could ever have imagined.

— Tsoknyi Rinpoche

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