从这个视角去看个人，事件和世界的关系，我感觉挺有帮助的：

「So one of key ideas here is that when you start to accept that you have profound influence on the world, but very limited control, you start to see the world differently, you start to behave differently. you start to accept the limits of what you can and cannot do.」

Via We control nothing, but we influence everything | Brian Klaas: Full Interview on YouTube