Boundries Without Losing Kindness!

Questioner: "Gurudev, do I have to set boundaries so that my good nature, or rather, I myself, am not taken advantage of?"
Gurudev: "Yeah. Of course, of course, of course. You should be wise, you should set your boundaries. But you should not be paranoid and judgmental. There is a difference between being judgmental and being paranoid, and to setting the boundaries."

设立边界，不失善意！

提问者：古儒吉，我是否需要设立边界，以免我的善良本性——或者说，我本人——被人利用？

古儒吉：是的。当然，当然，当然。你应该明智，应该设定自己的边界。但你不应该变得多疑或好判断。多疑、好判断与设立边界之间，是有区别的。 http://t.cn/AXSu0szM