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1.以前总想把每件事做到满分，生怕哪一步走错就满盘皆输。
In the past, I always wanted to get full marks in everything, for fear that I would lose every step if I made a mistake.
2.后来才懂，允许自己偶尔掉队，允许努力没有回报，不再拿别人的尺子丈量自己的人生，日子反而松快了。
Only later did I understand that I allowed myself to fall behind occasionally, allowed my efforts to be in no return, and no longer measured my life with other people's rulers, but my life was relaxed.
3.曾因为一次失误就反复责怪自己，在深夜里翻来覆去地复盘。
I once blamed myself repeatedly for a mistake and tossed and turned in the middle of the night.
4.小时候以为人生是单选题，选错一个答案就全完了。
When I was a child, I thought that life was a single-choice question, and if I chose a wrong answer, it would be all over.
5.长大后才发现，生活里到处都是岔路口，选哪条路都有风景，不再纠结“如果当初”，就能把现在的路走成对的路。
When I grew up, I found that there were forks everywhere in life, and there was scenery on any road I chose. I no longer entangled in "if I had been at the beginning", and I could take the current road as the right road.
6.以前总想抓住所有人和事，害怕失去任何一个重要的人。
In the past, I always wanted to catch everyone and things, and I was afraid of losing any important person.
7.后来明白，缘分就像握在手里的沙，攥得越紧流失得越快，不强求不属于自己的，才能腾出手拥抱真正值得的。
Later, I realized that fate is like the sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the faster it will disappear. If you don't force it, you can free your hand to embrace what is really worth.
8.为了合群勉强自己去融入圈子，说着违心的话，做着不喜欢的事。
In order to join the group, I reluctantly integrate into the circle, saying things against my heart and doing things I don't like.
9.现在终于敢坦然拒绝，把时间留给真正懂自己的人，原来孤独比勉强快乐得多。
Now I finally dare to refuse calmly and leave time for those who really understand themselves. It turns out that loneliness is much more lonely than reluctant happiness.
10.以前总觉得成功要趁早，看到同龄人领先就焦虑得睡不着。
In the past, I always felt that success should be done as soon as possible, and I was so anxious that I couldn't sleep when I saw my peers leading.
11.如今懂得每个人的花期不同，不必急着赶路，在自己的节奏里慢慢生长，也能开出属于自己的花。
Now I understand that everyone has their own blooming season. There's no need to rush. Growing at your own pace, you will eventually blossom into your own unique flower.
12.曾因为别人的一句评价就自我怀疑好几天，把外界的声音当成真理。
I once doubted myself for several days because of someone else's comment, and I took the voice of the outside world as the truth.
13.现在学会了给心里装个过滤器，只听那些有用的建议，至于闲言碎语，就让它随风去吧。
Now I have learned to put a filter on my heart and only listen to those useful suggestions. As for gossip, let it go with the wind.
14.以前总想着改变别人，希望身边的人都能按自己的想法行事。
In the past, I always wanted to change others, hoping that the people around me could act according to their own ideas.
15.后来才懂，能改变的只有自己，放下改造别人的执念，不仅别人轻松，自己也活得自在。
Later, I realized that the only one who can change is myself. Let go of the obsession of transforming others, not only for others to be relaxed, but also for myself to live freely. http://t.cn/AXSh5gYp