如果一个人善良、诚实、友善、慈悲、温暖，肯定每个人都喜欢；反之，如果一个人心胸狭隘、充满对立、嗔恨心重、嫉妒心强、总是损人利己，肯定没人愿意和他交朋友。
Everyone appreciates people who are kind, honest, friendly, compassionate, and warm. Conversely, someone who is petty, full of hostility, burdened by anger and jealousy, and always looking to gain at others' expense will find it hard to make friends.