人与人之间，最缺的是那份不带任何条件的、真诚的爱。太多的时候，我们看到的不是爱，而是欲。爱是奉献，是心甘情愿地付出，是不求回报地给予。而欲呢？欲是索取，是利益的交换，是斤斤计较的算计。当做任何事情都先问一句"这对我有什么好处"的时候，那份纯粹的爱与感恩，就成了最奢侈的东西。于是，这个世界的痛苦也便越来越多了。欲望永远没有满足的时候，在追逐欲望的路上，跑得越来越快，离幸福就越来越远。只有慈悲的爱，才是人们通往幸福的最好道路。这种爱，不是占有，而是成全；不是索取，而是给予；不是计较，而是包容。爱出者爱返，福往者福来。在别人心里种下的每一朵善意的花，终有一天会开满自己的生命之路。——加措上师 What we lack most between people is unconditional, sincere love. More often than not, what we see is not love but desire. Love is dedication, willing giving without expecting anything in return. Desire, on the other hand, is taking, exchange of interests, and petty calculation. When we first ask "what's in it for me" before doing anything, pure love and gratitude become the most luxurious things. As a result, the world suffers more and more. Desire is never satisfied; the faster we run in pursuit of it, the farther we are from happiness. Only compassionate love is the best path to happiness for all. This love is not possession but fulfillment, not taking but giving, not calculation but tolerance. Love given, love received; blessings sent, blessings returned. Every flower of kindness you plant in others' hearts will one day bloom all along your own life's path.——Respected Teacher Jia Cuo