生活中总有琐碎烦忧缠绕心头。有人常在外受了委屈，便把满身戾气带回家里，将坏情绪倾泻给最亲近的人，这实在是不应当。世间唯有深爱你的人，才会承接你的不安，惦念你的愁苦，甚至比你更忧心你的境遇。可我们总把这份偏爱当作理所当然，仗着被爱，肆意任性、随意嗔怒。以为深情总能无限包容，却不知每一次伤人的言语、失控的情绪，都是在心上划下伤痕。日积月累，爱意便在伤害里慢慢耗散。相守本是难得因缘，莫要把最坏的脾气，留给最值得珍惜的人。——加措上师 Life is always tangled with trivial worries. People often bring all their pent‑up anger home after suffering grievances outside and pour their negative emotions on their closest loved ones, which is truly inappropriate. Only those who deeply love you will bear your unease, care about your sorrows, and even worry more about your situation than you do. Yet we always take this affection for granted, acting recklessly and losing our temper freely because we are loved. We think deep love can tolerate everything endlessly, unaware that every hurtful word and out‑of‑control emotion cuts scars on hearts. As time goes by, love fades away little by little amid harm. Being together is a rare karmic bond, so never leave your worst temper to those who deserve your greatest cherish.——Respected Teacher Jia Cuo