这一生，不该只被利益二字困住。若凡事只盯着利弊，只计较回报，便会把自己困在欲望的牢笼里，患得患失。这世间有太多比得失更珍贵的馈赠，温暖的相遇、纯粹的热爱、笃定的初心、坦荡的心境，都是岁月赠予我们的底气。那些真心的陪伴、踏实的欢喜、内心的从容，从不是利益能换来的。越计较越疲惫，越索取越空虚。真正让人安稳的，从来不是得到多少，而是心里装着温柔与善意。 ——加措上师 We should not spend our lives trapped by profit alone. If we only focus on pros and cons and calculate every return, we will lock ourselves in a cage of desire, constantly worrying about gains and losses. There are far more precious gifts in this world than gains and losses: warm encounters, pure passions, unwavering original aspirations and open and honest hearts, all the inner strength bestowed upon us by time. Sincere companionship, down-to-earth joy and inner calm can never be bought with profit. The more you calculate, the more exhausted you become; the more you take, the emptier you feel. What truly brings peace and stability is never how much you have gained, but having gentleness and kindness in your heart.——Respected Teacher Jia Cuo