不能接受，那就改变，不能改变，那就离开。这并非逃避，而是人在世间最本真的自由选择，你永远握有决定自身姿态的权利。乐观的人只顾着笑，而忘了怨；悲观的人只顾着怨，而忘了笑。人总被自己选定的情绪囚禁，却以为是世界使然。我们很多人常常不肯认错，凡事都说是别人的错，认为只有自己才是对的，其实不认错就是一个错。固执地捍卫虚无的正确，不过是用虚妄包裹软弱。认错的时候自己不但不会少了什么，反而显得你有度量，学习认错是美好的，是一个大修行。敢于直面自身的局限，才是真正对自己负责，在承认缺憾的瞬间，人反而获得了心灵的坦荡。——加措上师 If you cannot accept it, then change it; if you cannot change it, then leave. This is not escapism, but the most authentic free choice of a person in this world. You always hold the right to decide your own attitude. Optimistic people only focus on smiling and forget to complain; pessimistic people only focus on complaining and forget to smile. People are always imprisoned by the emotions they choose, yet they think it is caused by the world. Many of us refuse to admit our mistakes, always blaming others for everything and believing that only we are right. In truth, refusing to admit one’s fault is itself a mistake. Stubbornly defending an illusory sense of rightness is merely covering weakness with delusion. When you admit your mistakes, you lose nothing; on the contrary, it shows your generosity. Learning to admit fault is a beautiful thing, a great practice. Only by daring to face your own limitations can you truly take responsibility for yourself. In the moment you acknowledge your imperfections, you gain peace of mind and true freedom.——Respected Teacher Jia Cuo