在读Mark Manson著名的《the subtle art of not giving giving a f👽ck》, 写得非常口水, 但是核心还是挺Buddha.
可能所有不断上升的思考, 最终都会汇聚在非常相似的地方.
也像一本脏话版《臣服实验》.

很多地方也还是会带来一些帮助妳不断松动现有执念的启发：

• 关于「不要去确定“你是谁”」

「I say don’t find yourself.
I say never know who you are because that’s what keeps you striving and discovering.
And it forces you to remain humble in your judgments and accepting of the difference in others.」

• 关于「杀死自我」

「Buddhism argues that your idea of who “you”are is an arbitrary mental construction and let go of the idea that “you” exist at all;
that arbitrary metrics by which you define yourself actually trap you, and thus you are better off letting go of everything.
In a sense, you could say that Buddhism encourages you to not give a f”ck.」