有人推荐我看这个油管视频《How to know your life purpose in 5 minutes》。视频下面的评论都挺真诚犀利的。看到这条评论，感觉是不是很多东亚小孩的困惑？“For a long time, my purpose was to make my parents proud, find a good job, be independent, have a house and my own family. But this was always another one's dream. My mom's dream. Now I have learned that I have to find my own purpose and I feel like even after watching this, I am still lost. I have to live my life for me and not for someone else, but I don't even know why I even live it”