How to handle impossible expectations?
Q: Gurudev, How do we live with the expectations of others that we cannot meet?
Gurudev: Well, you do your best. And if they expect something more than that, it's their problem. Maybe they see in you more possibilities. But don’t blame them at the first place. Their expectation is because they see possibilities in you. You give your 100%. And if it doesn’t happen, then it is their problem, none of yours.

如何应对无法实现的期望？
问：古儒吉，我们该如何应对他人对我们能力的过高期望，而我们又无法达到这些期望呢？
古儒吉：嗯，尽力而为就好。如果他们期望的超出这个限度，那就是他们的问题。也许他们在你身上看到了更多的可能性，并寄予期望。但首先不要责怪他们，他们的期望是因为他们在你身上看到了你的可能性。你全力以赴了，如果结果不尽如人意，那就是他们的问题，与你无关。 http://t.cn/A6rIG6Ww