【ig 贴文+ story】哭哭脸的生日六上线🥺

贴文文案：
“for the first time, i'm learning how to let life in and FEEL my feelings and NOT intellectualize them. which has taken a LOT of bravery for me cause i used to operate in this NEED to be in control and understand everything that was gonna happen before it happened and I MISSED MY WHOLE TWENTIES to trying to please other ppl and BE LIKED. but the truth is i DIDNT LIKE MYSELF. but at 30, i FINALLY feel it all.”

“这是我第一次真正学会敞开心扉，去感受自己的情绪，而不是一味地理性分析。对我来说，这需要很大的勇气，因为我过去总是想着要掌控一切，并且提前了解事情的发展，而这让我错过了整个二十多岁的时光，只为了取悦别人，得到他们的喜欢。但事实是，我根本不喜欢那样的自己。现在30岁了，我终于学会了真正去感受一切。”

看到ari现在状态这么好真的好为他开心🥹[心]为自己而活[心]

#Lauv[超话]#