About soul mate

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

但 最后是
You're like a dog at the dump, baby—you're just lickin' at an empty tin can, trying to get more nutrition out of it.
寶貝，你像在垃圾堆上舔着空罐头，想獲取滋飬的小狗。😭

—Eat, Pray, Love Journalist, Elizabeth Gilbert

Einar Jolin