from @维千金

如果最难的题总有人帮你做，那不是幸运，而是在折损你羽翼。

以前看有些人，无论是工作、带娃、还是日常生活的琐事， 把最困难的部分全部交给了别人，都有人代劳，会觉得这些人命好。对比自己，感觉很苦和倔强。

后来发现，就在这些死扛的过程中，我们的精神力量长起来了。

如果一个人的精神力量长起来了，就可以不需要求掌声了，始终能够把注意力放在真正增益于己的人事物上，这是回报之一。

又因为承担重担，所以可以避免进入空虚状态，这个绝对是最大的一个奖赏。

而再反观前者，会发现他们的轻松不再是幸运，他们原本也充满潜力，却因为依赖心被天花板限制。

他们要眼睁睁看着只有信念的人一步一个脚印往前走，说他们不心慌，鬼都不信。做那个最踏实的人，才是幸运

@翻译驴 的软件翻译的英语。我觉得比大多数人写的好。

If someone always helps you do the hardest questions, it's not luck, but you're breaking your wings.

In the past, I saw some people, whether they work, take care of children, or daily life trifles, give the most difficult part to others, all of them do it for them, will feel these lives are good. Compare yourself, feel very bitter and stubborn.

It was later discovered that in the process of these dead shoulders, our spiritual strength grew up.

If a person's spiritual strength grows up, he can stop asking for applause and always focus on the people and things that really gain to himself, which is one of the rewards.

And because of the burden, so you can avoid into the empty state, this is definitely one of the biggest reward.

On the other hand, if you look at the former, you will find that their ease is no longer luck. They were originally full of potential, but they were limited by the ceiling because of their dependence.

They want to watch only faith people step by step forward, say they do not panic, ghosts do not believe. Do that the most down-to-earth person is lucky.

DeepL翻译的

If someone always helps you with the hardest problems, it is not lucky, but it is a loss of wings.

In the past, some people, whether it was work, with a baby, or the trivialities of daily life, gave all the most difficult parts to others, and there were people who did the work for them, and they would feel that these people had a good life. Comparing myself, I feel very bitter and stubborn.

Later, it was found that in the process of these dead shoulders, our spiritual strength grew.

If a person's spiritual strength grows, he can no longer ask for applause, and he can always focus on people and things that are really gained by himself, which is one of the rewards.

And because of the burden, you can avoid entering a state of emptiness, which is definitely the biggest reward.

Looking back at the former, you will find that their ease is no longer lucky, they are also full of potential, but because of dependence, they are limited by the ceiling.

They will watch those who have only faith go forward step by step, saying that they are not flustered, and the ghosts do not believe. To be the most down-to-earth person is lucky